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July 09, 2009

Thoughts on Celebrity Funerals / Jeff Heidkamp (Minneapolis, MN)

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It's been interesting watching the reactions to Michael Jackson and Farrah Fawcett.  I grew up in a very conservative home, so I literally had no exposure to Jackson or Fawcett. 

Off_The_Wall I was at Costco yesterday and found a DVD with a bunch of Michael Jackson music videos for 8 bucks, and thought I'd pick it up (my wife nixed the boxed set of Charlie's Angels reruns, however).  The production is obviously dated, but I found that several of them were quite moving- particularly "Black or White" and "You are not alone".  At first they seem corny, but he seemed to have that knack for putting universal issues in very broad, approachable terms. 

What really interests me about the remarkable public response to these deaths is the degree to which both Jackson and Fawcett clearly connect to flawed aspects of humanity.  With no judgment intended, it is impossible to think about Jackson without thinking of the rather public personal unraveling in his later years.  And I don't think it takes Jesus to think that while there is something harmless about the sex-symbol status of a Farrah Fawcett, there is also something of misogyny at work in that persona.

Paris2 And yet, both figures are beloved, and in a way that seems to me to reflect something good rather than bad about society.  I can't imagine not being moved by the image of Jackson's daughter weeping and proclaiming, against all public sentiment, that she loved her dad and was glad he was her father.  And while I know less about Fawcett, her courageous battle with cancer resounds with so many struggles I've watched even in my relatively short life.

Perhaps there is something important about faith in all this.  We look at Jackson and Fawcett and we see ourselves- yes, we are flawed.  Yes, there are things about us that are deeply embarrassing.  There are responses in us, sexual or otherwise, that at times we'd rather not admit to.  And yet we are capable of courage, beauty, love, and compassion, even in the midst of our flaws.

And, perhaps, this insistence is something of the reflection of the divine within us.  We will not be owned by our flaws, by our mistakes, or our personal demons.  We are made for something larger, something better, something infinite.  There is an almost messianic streak in some of Jackson's music- heal the world, we are the world, we don't want to be alone.  I wonder if some of that resonates in everyone.

July 08, 2009

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July 07, 2009

Are You a Patriot?

So, okay, we've got this conversation on homosexuality going, which I interrupted just a skosh yesterday, and I'd love to keep that ball rolling if there's any more to be said at the moment than what we've said.

But Independence Day got me thinking about patriotism and my muse is so astoundingly fleeting, I thought I should run with this for the common good.

NyMets And, for one more note in the preamble, I'm away again for the rest of this week.  (I'm taking my three young boys on a "boys trip" to New York for two days, upon which the left-at-home girls will join us for three more days.  A Mets game awaits!  [For one thing,  the Mets are at home while the Yankees are not.  And it's probably for the best, as many years of Yankee-revulsion could be hard to overcome as we stepped across the threshold.  But there's probably another great post on the Yankees/spiritual darkness theme, so I don't want to spoil that here.])  All to say, please indulge your "I want to write a post for this blog!" instincts and get them to dan@notreligious.org. And thank you very much to the couple of you who have indeed submitted posts recently that we haven't yet run.  I'll get back to you!  I haven't forgotten.

Patriot All to say, I'm not sure why patriotism has repelled me from a pretty young age.  It's not a Jesus thing--though these days I have lots of Jesus-based ammunition for it.  I had it at least by my atheistic mid-teens.  Graduating seniors in my high school could pick a quote to go under the picture in their yearbook, and for whatever reason mine was a political comment from the noted firebrand Neil Simon.  It was from his flop early play The Star-Spangled Girl and went thusly: "I love absolutely everything about this country except people who love absolutely everything about this country."  Somehow that was what I wanted to be remembered by.  It's a mystery.

if you track with some of the terms of this blog, you've probably jumped ahead of me and diagnosed my anti-patriotism as a stage 3/stage 2 thing (note the button on "Stage 4 faith," above, for a description of this).  And you're probably right.  I'm sure patriotism represented a world I was eager to leave behind.  (I was recruited by three service academies.  My dad said I should take them up on it--they would make a man out of me.  I looked at him with wonder, thinking that he profoundly didn't know to whom he was talking.)

Transitioning to follow Jesus included an easy transition on this front.   As followers of Jesus, our loyalty was to God's kingdom on earth, not to one nation or another.  Yes, we were to obey the ruling authorities, but clearly Jesus wasn't a cheerleader for Rome (or for Israel--he left that to Simon the Zealot). 

And July 4 reminds me that I remain in this uneasy place today.  On the one hand, I'm a massive America fan.  I'm so glad to have been born here.  I love Boston, just as I loved San Francisco before it.  I couldn't imagine living in a repressive country (Iran seeming to carry the banner for that in the media at the moment).  I couldn't be happier that America won the Revolutionary War and that Hitler was defeated, and I feel a big thank-you to all those who fought and died in those efforts.  (Some other conflicts are harder to cheer for, through no fault at all of the servicemen and women who fought in them.)  My family had a truly fantastic time at a local fireworks celebration on Saturday.  So in all those ways, I suppose I'm a patriot.

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But I nonetheless don't feel like a patriot.  My loyalties flow much easier towards Jesus than they do towards America.  Maybe those two things aren't at odds, but they can stubbornly feel at odds to me.

So help me out.  Are you a patriot?  Why or why not?  Help me out of my muddle.

July 06, 2009

My Bad

Thanks so much to each of you who've participated in this past week's conversation about the challenging question of homosexuality-and-faith.  It's been really noteworthy to me that, thus far, we've had quite a high degree of agreement here--maybe because we've done the pre-work of reading Andrew Marin's book together.  I'll very much look forward to keeping this conversation alive, particularly if we can learn from one another about actual ways forward.   Thanks so much.

That said, I think I got caught betwixt and between with my last post, which I've pulled from the blog.  Like a basketball player caught betwixt and between--deciding, say, to cut left when they've committed to go right--I may have snapped an ankle.

My mistake probably was in mentioning this article I was putting together before it had actually happened.  Once I mentioned it, when it turned out not to be helpful to run in the magazine in question, that left me feeling I owed it to you all to run it, just because I'd mentioned it.  The problem was how to do that without lobbying against or embarrassing the folks at the magazine in question, whom I respect entirely.  I entirely understand the reason why this article might not be helpful for its mission at the moment.  My thinking at the time was, while that was completely understandable, perhaps a setting like this one might be the place for whatever conversation it was hoping to get started.  The problem was that, at this point of the storyline, "the article" was tied up in its publication history, so it was hard to run neutrally.  So I think I was naive to post it--and in point of fact it's not clear that it says much that our previous entries haven't already touched on.

All to say, it seems to me I owe an apology to the good people at this magazine, Cutting Edge (a complete favorite of mine and a must-read each month--if you're not a reader and you like this blog, you should run not walk to get your subscription).  I one hundred percent understand and respect their decision in this case and have had endless history with all of  the folks involved, all of which has reinforced that we are absolute partners in these sorts of things. 

To reiterate: My bad. 

Tomorrow, another post.  Thanks again so much to each of you for such an engaging conversation this past week.

PS: I'm not especially trying to stop whatever conversation this article might engender.  I'm just sold that for the moment I've made this blog a particularly unsafe setting for it.  If you have any interest in the article, feel free to email Dan Littauer at dan@notreligious.org and he'd be happy to email it to you.

July 01, 2009

Why Is the Homosexuality-and-Faith Question Important to You?

GayflagMale I'm not being facetious or provocative with this question.  It's an important question to me, for reasons I started to detail in the last post.  And, if you're gay or lesbian, of course I understand why this issue is important to you.

But, continuing on the theme of the Love is an Orientation book club that we launched into (and if you've read the book and haven't commented, please do), I know that for so many of my friends this is a really important issue, and I'd like to hear more.

For one thing, this was a question that was pretty much off the table, say, ten years ago.  The point of view then was largely that, whatever one's personal sympathies, the Bible itself made some things clear that preempted the conversation.  Even today, according to a recent exhaustive Duke University study on congregations in America, we're told that 23% of American congregations would permit someone in a committed gay relationship to hold a volunteer leadership position (that might seem like a large number to some of you, but when you consider the Protestant mainline, which presumably would be supportive here, not to mention Unitarian/Universalist congregations, this number seems small to me).  This is compared, say, to the number of congregations that would permit someone with outspoken pro-choice views to hold a leadership position--41%.  So, all to say, this is still a dramatically minority position.

So...why is this question important to you?  (And, if I could ask just a bit more from you.  On the one side of the issue, you might well answer: "justice."  On the other side of the issue, you might well answer something like: "loyalty to the Bible."  Fair enough, but if those are your answers, could you fill them out a bit?  Why is this sort of justice or this sort of loyalty to the Bible important to you?)  Whatever your answer, was this issue important to you ten years ago, when it wasn't engendering much conversation? 

June 29, 2009

The LOVE IS AN ORIENTATION Book Club Arrives!

Love-is-an-Orientation So here it is, our long-promised first book club moment.

A little over a month ago, I invited all of you fair readers to read a book together--Andrew Marin's engaging discussion of his journey as a straight evangelical in gay settings, Love is an Orientation.  I wondered if his book might provide a way to talk about the important but often challenging topic of homosexuality in religious settings in perhaps a more-productive way than we've yet pulled off on this site.

So, our month has passed, and the time has arrived.

Rules2 Let me review the ground rules.  At this point, this is indeed a book club, meaning that the comments I'm looking for are from those of you who've read Marin's book (or a hefty portion of it) and will largely be about Marin's book (rather than ad hominem comments on homosexuality and religion).  If you aren't commenting on your reading of Marin's book, but are opining on the broader subject, sadly, either I or Dan Littauer (who helps edit this site) will likely remove your comment.  For the moment, we're going to stick to the subject at hand. :) 

Now the broader subject might yet find its way here.  I mentioned that Jeff Heidkamp, one of our awesome commenters here, in a fit of naivete, suggested I write an article on something like "Centered-Set Faith and Homosexuality" for the magazine he edits, called Cutting Edge.  As I mentioned, I did that, perhaps in my own fit of naivete.  I think Jeff liked the article just fine...but it was axed by his highers-up, who wondered if it might be opening a hornet's nest that they weren't ready just yet to open.  So it's crossed my mind that I might post my article here...but that, indeed, would open up the broader subject.  So we'll save that for a little down the road.

Again, at the moment, we're a mere book club, people. 

I'll start with a few of my own opening impressions of Marin's book.  I'd read about a third of it when I proposed it to you all, so I was hoping I wouldn't change my mind on it as I continued to read.  But no problem there--I loved the book and feel like I learned a lot.  I learned a lot of ways not to talk with a gay friend.  (Don't refer to someone as a "homosexual" for instance, but as gay, lesbian or "a member of the GLBT community."  Helpful tip.)  I heard lots of stories that really struck me and seemed really central to my own sense of mission.  (I might post on that a bit later too.  Maybe it's not surprising, but I've been reflecting recently how all this stuff boils back to a long-standing passion to participate in what some folks a few centuries back might call an "awakening" or, to use more recent terminology, a revival among Western secularists.  This really does drive a lot of my choices in life, and Marin's book seems dead on target for that passion.)  I was given some, to me, really helpful theological reflections to ponder, from his recounting of Mel White's line of thought (which Marin wasn't endorsing, but which I found very helpful) to Marin's own theological grid, which was also as provocative in all the best ways as any theology I've read in awhile.

I'll stop there for my opening salvo.  What struck you as you read Marin's book (oh those of you who have read at least a good chunk of Marin's book)?

June 26, 2009

Our Common Endeavor

Ccs2009 Have I pitched the Culture Center Summit to you?  You of all people should come to the Culture Center Summit.

By virtue of reading this blog, you’re pretty much the bulls-eye for this thing.  It’s very fun several times a week to bat around the kind of topics we do here as we meet each other in cyberspace.  That said, our ultimate dream is to fan into flame an ever-growing multitude of folks who experience and promote vibrant faith in great, secular places—throughout America and hopefully well-beyond.  This is something that’s pretty new and pretty fun…and does seem to require occasional face time, hence our heart for a yearly gathering of all of us who say “I’m in!” to this endeavor.

Heroic Leadership There will, of course, be inspiring and helpful things said—maybe even one or two by me.  We’d planned to have Chris Lowney join us last year, but his elderly mom’s bad car accident kept him from making it.  Chris Lowney4 Chris wrote the favorite book I read in 2008—Heroic Leadership, a ripping good story of the development of the Jesuits as applied to leadership advice for today.  (We’ve often wondered if the Jesuits are among the best historic pictures of what we’re hoping to see happen today, for all their occasional missteps.)  He’ll plan to be here this year. 

But we’re realizing that, as important as inspiring and helpful and provocative words are, they’re really only part of the story here.  For one, they have limits.  (I’m sure every now and again as you read our friendly blog you have the fleeting thought that, as helpful and engaging as talk about stage and set theories are, clearly there’s more to life.  You quickly snap back to sanity, of course, but perhaps you carry that lingering memory…)  But a big, big part of what seems to be happening at this gathering involves who you actually end up rubbing shoulders with—and perhaps who you’ll rub shoulders with for years to come if you make this a yearly commitment.  One good friend of mine talks with excitement about the new friend she met at last year’s summit that she may someday plant a new church with.  One of my favorite congregations is looking to bring THIRTY of their top leaders to get them fully engaged with this conversation and network.  Folks from 13 states joined us last year, so you really can meet new partners from all over.

Casey Corum2 So we’re taking this network stuff much more seriously this year.  Two full afternoons will be spentC_Greco2 with smaller groups of folks like yourself.  Casey Corum, who heads the Vineyard Music label, will be co-leading a track with Christopher Greco and David Linhart for musicians and worship leaders.  I’ll head up a pastors track.  There will be lay leader and SEEK leader and tracks.  There will be some pretty great chances to rub shoulders.

And, believe it or not, we do spend a good part of our year working behind the scenes gathering feedback and doing our best to generate resources for this endeavor.  So right at the moment I’m working like a busy beaver on one of the most-requested items.  Folks who buy into the things we talk about here have asked again and again, “Yes, but how?”  If, say, the point of view of Not the Religious Type is—for the sake of argument—fresh and helpful and a great start to all of this, how does one actually create a community (large or at Starbucks) along these lines?  Are there hidden pitfalls?  How does it look like other communities of faith, how does it look different, how do things interconnect…how does one do this?  I’ll have the first draft of a book on that subject for summit attendees. 

The other most-frequent request we’ve heard in the past year has been for SEEK DVDs.  About 80 people and congregations have taken a whack at SEEK at some level.  Some have gone very well and SEEK is now an established thing they do.  Others have said it turned out to be harder than it looked and that they think they could do it if they, say, could be a fly on the wall as a SEEK helper in a course I ran.  Given that they can’t do that, could we put together a DVD curriculum that they could lead in which I carry the talks the first or second or third go-rounds so that they can focus on the people present.  And then maybe they’d take over and do it live after that.  And could we include, say, commentary tracks with each talk that teach the nuances of how to attract people to SEEK, how to create safe and vibrant groups, how to move people forward once SEEK is done, and things like that?  So…sure.  We’ll have the start of that ready for folks at the summit.

By this point I’ll assume you’re sold, that, hey, whatever trifling obstacles have to be overcome for you to make this happen, you’ll take care of them and be there.  (I mean, in the big picture, don’t you want your life to be about these things?  So it’ll take a little work and planning—this is the sweep of your life we’re talking about here…)  So we’ll consider that done, which is awesome.  Two things come to mind.  One, just to say, the early registration deadline is Tuesday, so you’ll want to save a few bucks.  Second, I’d imagine you know people I don’t know who, frankly, should be at this thing.  They would love it and would jump right in, but first they have to hear about it and be encouraged to give it a shot.  So you’ll want to get on that. :)

I’d like to close with the Culture Center Summit cheer, but that would require writing one, and who has the time?  But I’ll certainly close with a hearty (and hopeful) “See you there!”

June 25, 2009

Battling Evil in Tehran

AliKhamenei This is from Monday’s New York Times. 

Ayatollah Ali Khamenei, Iran’s supreme leader, ended his prayer sermon in tears on Friday, invoking the name of a disappeared Shiite prophet to suggest that his government was besieged by forces of evil out to destroy a legitimate Islamic government.

Mir_Hossein_Mousavi_in_Zanjan The opposition leader, Mir Hussein Moussavi, in criticizing the government, demanded the kind of justice promised by the Koran and exhorted his followers to take to their rooftops at night to cry out, “Allahu akbar,” or “God is great.”

In the battle to control Iran’s streets, both the government and the opposition are deploying religious symbols and parables to portray themselves as pursing the ideal of a just Islamic state.

That struggle could prove the main fulcrum in the battle for the hearts and minds of most ordinary Iranians, because the Islamic Revolution, since its inception, has painted itself as battling evil. If the government fails the test of being just, not least by using excessive violence against its citizens, it risks letting the opposition wrap itself in the mantle of Islamic virtue.

“If either the reformists or the conservatives can make reference to Islamic values in a way that the majority of citizens understand, they will win,” said Mohsen Kadivar, a senior Iranian religious scholar teaching Islamic studies at Duke University.

Moments in the Times’ coverage of Iran’s post-election crisis have touched on this: the Islamic Revolution promises to legislate good and prohibit evil, which has made for a rocky relationship with democracy.  Can a nation actually vote good in and evil out?  Or does that need to come from on high, hence the need for a supreme leader (whom some in the opposition are now doing their best to characterize as evil). 

At the risk of gross cultural insensitivity, I wonder if this dilemma is central to the unsettling faith the Bible pitches.  “Man looks on the outside, but God looks on the heart,” for instance, or Jesus’ fundamental clash with the Pharisees, whose entire focus is legislating the good and forbidding the bad.  The progression of the Bible’s argument increasingly seems to argue for a kind of relational truth trumping a focus on good/evil and it increasingly warns of dire consequences for ignoring this switch in perspective.  This, for instance, is Jesus’ warning to his followers: “In fact, the hour is coming when those who kill you will think they are offering a service to God.” Those who see God primarily as an arbiter of good and evil, to paraphrase John 16:2, will kill God’s actual disciples.  That should give us all pause.

Like most Westerners, I’m rooting like crazy for Iran’s protesters and this does seem like a seminal moment for at least what’s possible there.  But what’s possible seems truly fundamental, seems to strike at the heart of the whole enterprise of the Islamic Revolution.  A Secular Age And, strangely enough, in rooting for the protesters, I seem to be rooting for a kind of secularism—the kind of secularism that believes that the freedom that comes from democracy is a good thing, though it might sometimes be used for what I believe to be evil; the kind of secularism that—if I’m understanding A Secular Age right (note Brian’s review from last Monday)—faith in Jesus, strangely enough, created; the kind of secularism that frees me to say “God is good” but demands that I follow it with “but religion (as perhaps we see in Iran) is, regrettably, bad.”

June 24, 2009

Helpful Against Ninjas /Luke Stevens (Portland, ME)

Helpful Against Ninjas from Luke Stevens on Vimeo.

June 22, 2009

Certainty and Delight

Thanks to everyone who gave Grace and me suggestions about what we might explore near Bath, England.  The winners?  We spent a day in, yes, Bath itself, which couldn’t have been more fun.  (We also managed to see a Royal Shakespeare Company production of a Terrence Rattigan play, which was dynamite.)  And we hightailed it down to Devon, where we had a hiking day around Salcombe, which was also spectacular, if a little rainy.  We couldn’t have had a better time with our hosts at C3 Church—Bath and Bristol.  The whole experience was a noteworthy gift to Grace and me.

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(Also, I’ve just been alerted to a pretty fun part-time job opening for those of you with a particular love for college campuses.  Dan Cho, who leads the awesome Veritas Forum, let me know that they’re looking for regional directors for the Northeast, South and West Coast regions of the U.S.  [It sounds like you don’t necessarily have to live in those regions to get the job.]  All to say, if you’d like to hear more, here’s a full job description.)

Having all this time together unfettered by the needs of 5 young children and an awesome community of faith to run, Grace and I were able to chat endlessly about endless interesting things.  And among them was the often-subtle differences between what we sometimes call here “Stage 2 faith” and “Stage 4 faith.”  (Note the button, above, for more on this.)  Grace and I learn so much in healthy examples of either setting, so the distinction was by no means that one type of faith has something to teach us and the other doesn’t.  They both, clearly, do.  So what’s the difference, really? 

We realized that one key difference boiled down to certainty.  Healthy, growing Stage 2 settings (either leaders or individual believers) often project a lot of this—they have a plan, they know what works.  Other churches or believers looking to learn from them often express inferiority.  Clearly these people know what they’re doing—why can’t we do the same things and get the same results?  Along with certainty, a key value here—or so it seemed to Grace and me—is strength. 

And there’s nothing wrong with this!  I’m always in the crowd trying to learn from this certainty.

But it seemed to us that Stage 4 settings we appreciate pretty much don’t ever play on certainty.  I never get the sense that they’ve got life or God or church figured out.  That said, it’s not that they play, say, on doubt, on the opposite of certainty.  It’s as if they’re on a different spectrum.  What seemed best to characterize these folks is that they play on delight. 

They often seem surprisingly self-reflective in ways we don’t experience with most people of faith.  They’ve gone through their crises and failures and they laugh at themselves quickly.  They seem unusually in touch.  If they’re leaders and if they’re leaders who draw people around them, the “success” they experience often seems to come from the pleasure people experience around them and around their community.  It’s as if they realize that, for all its pain and failure and tragedy, life is too short to miss the delight that’s offered us nonetheless.

I’m sure there’s much more to be said on this, but I wonder if you resonate?

June 18, 2009

Introducing new sounds in the context of cultural expectations/David Linhart

DL STENCIL3 On a ministry trip from Boston to Sao Paulo last summer, I cornered several worship leaders in a local congregation with one question: Please show me the real-deal Brazilian worship music! I've grown up musically to the styles of samba and forro. I've been moved by the work of Joao Gilberto and Maria Rita. But I hadn't yet found artists crying out to God through these sounds, bringing along with them those of us who connect through these sounds at the heart level.


On my trip, it turned out that Brazilian worship often meant songs from the US translated from English to Portuguese, and the big barrier to, say, samba worship, was cultural expectations. Samba for some Brazilians means late nights at the bar, starting with sexual innuendo on the dance floor and perhaps ending in a bed that's not my own. At the same time, samba for other Brazilians and internationals alike means quintessential Brazil, but not necessarily for the sexiness. It's a sound that represents a people, a cultural identity. But if the people of samba step into the house of worship, with hearts ready to worship, do they have to check their samba in at the door and pick it up on the way out?

Mackson2 Stateside, we have folks like Mahalia Jackson, who was criticized by some contemporary church leaders who called her energetic gospel blues worldly. She didn't try anything more edgy than did Martin Luther, who fashioned his Protestant hymns out of pub tunes that connected with everyday Germans. I suspect, though, that both Mahalia and Martin didn't just make the music they made as an outreach strategy. They expressed themselves, poured out their hearts to Jesus, and those were the sounds that came out.

I wonder if that's a key aspect of center-set worship, an openness to the unique expressions of worship that pop up in the larger church body and through individuals in congregations. It's not so much that the Brazilian church I visited should feel it needs to force new sounds into it's repertoire, only that they could welcome and support folks who are already bringing in that vision, in a spirit of teamwork. They're happily on that tip, as the teens in the congregation become the adults in the congregation.

It strikes me that sooo much of worship is subjective and personal and unable to be translated into hard principles. When someone says, "Now THAT'S pure worship!" another person might say, with as much passion, "Now that DOES NOT help me connect with Jesus!" In a congregation, hopefully it's the PEOPLE AS A WHOLE that seal the deal on the worship experience, not just the band up front. That's to say that there is a group effect of people opening their hearts en masse that gives power to worship music, and as congregants we can often make or break that group effect by our expectations.

In some congregations, we EXPECT to hear from Jesus with a Matt Redman song, we EXPECT to feel the Spirit with a Fred Hammond song, and we open our hearts in a way that it actually happens. Not to take the mystery out of it, but part of the response is learned out of culturally established norms where we have assigned to those sounds a certain spiritual authority. Now is the time to worship, to these songs. But why not create expectations of being surprised by God in new ways? When I go out to catch a set of live music, I don't always look for songs I know-- save that for listening to a CD! Often I want to hear something new. Come Sunday morning, I also don't look to hear last month's sermon series repeated this month for the sake of familiarity.

When I hear new music, I can't always sing the words with my eyes closed. But I can open my heart, raise my hands, learn, feel, dance or maybe just stand quiet and still. I can EXPECT to meet God in a new way, and I can share with those who pour out their hearts in a different way than me. And that doesn't override the value of familiarity, only questions if we're tipped too far in that direction while trying to achieve balance. Before long, the new way might become exactly the familiar way that I pour out my heart, and why not?

Ccs2009 NOTE: If this primer sounds interesting, and you've caught some of the centered-set worship conversation that's appeared on Dave's blog in the past, consider attending the Culture Center Summit in August! It would be a great time for worship leaders across the Vineyard (and heck, whoever else is interested) to connect over what's on your heart related to this topic. In particular, from practitioner to practitioner, I bet there would amazing tips and stories to share as well as a few original songs worth a larger audience than just your MP3 recorder. Who's in?

June 15, 2009

Transformation, Growth, and Jesus / Otto von Wachter (Philadelphia, PA)

Otto2 Hpoe for the Flowers Years ago I came across a children's book called Hope for the Flowers by Trina Paulus (click here to read it). It's a story of transformation.  Although this book was not religious, I can't help seeing parallels between this story and the message of Jesus.

Most people, even if they're not religious, are aware that as human beings we have something great in us, a divine spark you could say, that most of the time we only get glimpses of.  Sometimes we recognize it in others and sometimes we experience it in ourselves.  But sometimes, perhaps we forget it's even there. Like a precious stone hidden by mud or buried inside a rough rock, so the human spirit seems to be obscured by something denser and darker. We could consider this sin.  Among other things, judgment, fear, and guilt defile us and hold us back.

And most people, even if they're not religious, believe that there's the potential for more in their life.  We long for joy, for beauty, for transcendence, and to achieve great things. Somehow we know that, if God planted these desires in our hearts, it is possible.

When God created everything he did not create a static world, he commanded everything to transform and grow. We can see this in everything God created from tadpoles to trees.  A bud grows into a flower, which, when pollinated undergoes a transformation and grows into a fruit.  The fruit contains a seed, and out of this seed emerges a whole new tree. So we see growth and transformation everywhere in cycle of life.  Some things grow fast (a bamboo shoot can grow over a foot per day), and others slowly.  It takes a diamond millions of years to transform, under great heat and pressure from a black, chalky substance, into the hardest and most brilliant stone known to man.

But what about the human spirit?  Most of the time it is so numbed by the trappings of society and constricted by sin, that its growth is severely stunted.  And as for transformation... forget it.  It won't happen under atmospheric pressure, under normal conditions.

Jesus talked of this kind of transformation when he says "you must be born again". He also says that we can't explain it, or control it ("The wind blows wherever it pleases. You hear its sound, but you cannot tell where it comes from or where it is going").  It  happens through a mysterious process, through the Spirit of God.  If that's true, it's a profound insight.

Most of us realize that we need something more than our own will.  We have experienced that the faster we run, the further we are from our destination.  And the harder we try, the more we grasp for happiness or meditate for transcendence, the more the experience eludes us.

We want to get back to God and yet we don't know the way.  Like a caterpillar that has lost its instinct to make a cocoon, we feel that we have lost our way on our sacred journey, the way for our spirit to soar.  Like a drooping vine branch, we feel we have been cut off from our divine roots, from the vine through which we receive divine nutrients.  Or like a cold light bulb, we feel that we have been disconnected from the source through which we receive divine energy so we can glow.  

Jesus said "I am the way" and "I am the vine" (if he was preaching today, maybe he would also say "I am the electric grid"). But most times nowadays we are told that these statements are things we need to believe in.  We study it, ponder it, and discuss it in Bible study, and then we affirm that we believe it. On the other hand, for a caterpillar making a cocoon is a very practical matter.  There's no intellectual or theoretical component about it.

Buttferfly2 Did God create butterflies so we can learn something about ourselves from them?  Are you inspired by this kind of transformation?  As followers of Jesus, how do we persuade our fellow human beings that, like their body and the caterpillar, their spirit too can grow and transform?  

A note for the non-religious: I myself am not convinced that belief in Jesus is the only way for us to transform or grow. The way I see it, even if God sent Jesus as the one and only savior, I think God probably got tired of 2000 years of people fighting over theology.  Calvin was so right about his theology that he had another man burned at the stake for it.  So maybe God got tired of all this nonsense and has opened other doors for human beings by now.  But instead of arguing about whether or not Jesus is the only way or about theology, can we learn something from Jesus?  Can we take him up on his offer when he says "take my yoke upon you and learn from me"?

June 11, 2009

Part 1: A Very Brief Review of Charles Taylor’s A Secular Age/ Brian Doak (MA)

A Secular Age Some of the most prominent intellectuals of the past century or so have attempted to tackle the question of the “secularization” of the Western world—two names that come immediately to mind are Max Weber and Peter Berger, though there are many others. How did a world that seemed to be filled with gods and magic and religion at every level of life for all of recorded history come to be so rapidly “disenchanted,” i.e., largely emptied of religious belief and actions, in just the past few hundred (or dozen) years?  Charles Taylor, Emeritus Professor of Philosophy at McGill University, has taken his best shot at answering this question, and the result is a massive (874 pages!) and, for the foreseeable future, definitive account of this process. CharlesT After seeing the book at a local bookstore, and then reading a comment about it the very next day here on the blog last year, I thought, what the heck, the cosmos is speaking to me, and I should read the book. I did. It was long. But it was also one of the most profound and learned pieces of scholarship I have encountered in a long time. In what follows, then, I will not review the book point by point or chapter by chapter (sighs of relief ensue…), but rather, I’ll just jot down a couple of thoughts that seem relevant to the types of people that seem to read and comment here at NTRT…

Secularization is not a story of “subtraction.” To many casual thinkers, the process toward secularization seems to be about losing things; Taylor calls this the “subtraction theory,” and he doesn’t buy it. A subtraction theorist might say: God wasn’t needed to personally move the cosmos because laws of gravity and so on do that. God didn’t create humans or animals in seven days, because evolution supposedly did that. And then they took prayer out of schools. And so on. Rather, the story Taylor tells is far more interesting, and complex; things were subtracted, to be sure, but things were also added, and there have been seismic shifts and reconfigurations at many basic cultural and historical levels. And stuff like that.

The etymology of the word “secular” is interesting and leads to a significant change in our understanding of the world on the way to secularity. What does the word “secular” mean, anyway? The English “secular” is from the Latin saeculum, which means “a century” or “age.” Thus, a “secularist” is one who lives in the saeculum, one who is embedded in ordinary time, as opposed to, say, a monastic order, or those who live in an environment that is “closer to eternity,” i.e., structured, like the church calendar, kairotically, where time is measured not by a linear movement of events, but by the significance attached to specific events. One of Taylor’s repeated points is that secularity can be traced through changes in the way specific human communities view time. So, when church officials banished activities like carnival in periods where a “rage for order” and piety was particularly prevalent, the church was banishing the kairotic significance that was attached to feasts of reversal like carnival and their place in the kairotic time system, thus disrupting the structures of “holy” or “eternal” time that kept life from being a mundane series of linear events, without any special meaning. Note: this may explain something of the modern longing, among many younger faith-seekers, to have “liturgical” elements re-integrated into a life of faith. So much more to be said on this, but see pp. 54-9, 124ff, 194-5ff, and so on if you’re interested!

Decisions by prevailing church structures throughout the years have had unintended and seemingly unpredictable consequences toward creating the secular world in which we now live. One of my favorite examples adduced by Taylor toward this end has to do with the issue of indulgences. One simplistic view is to say, “Ah, medieval Catholics got greedy, introduced indulgences, went way too far with it, and thus corrupted the church, and this led to secularization.” On the contrary, Taylor suggests that the excesses of the medieval church were actually a response to a popular demand for things like indulgences and so on, connected as they were to death and time in purgatory, in an era when people increasingly feared death. Recall that the 14th cen. was kind of a bad time, to put it lightly. You know, the whole Black Death thing. At any rate, Protestantism played an important role in the secularization story also, but there is too much to be said on this. Let’s move along…

Our secular age is intricately bound up with the rise of many bedrock aspects of our “social imaginary,” i.e., the deep-deep background that provides the possibility for all of our thinking and existence in the time in which we live. Any attempt to reverse this secularity, then, would by extension entail an upheaval beyond what many of us would imagine. In other words, if one wants to turn back the clock on secularity, one might have to do things like a) find a way to banish all modes of media communication that have created a shared “public space” over the past 200 years, b) reverse the governmental idea of a “social contract” and its concomitant assumptions about the nature of humans and their needs in public discourse, c) banish our current economic system and its connection with our governmental ideals, d) reinstitute a radically hierarchical social structure, with a king at its head and with definitive classes/castes that cannot be transgressed, and so on. The explanations for how and why each of these factorsThe Road contributed to secularism is too complicated to spell out here,but I suppose most of us could imagine how the aforementioned institutions and so on undermined the idea of a hierarchical universe with an all-controlling God at its head. Of course, a world-wide nuclear holocaust or Black-Death like plague could turn back the clock, and leave us all living as characters in Cormac McCarthy’s The Road (except that everyone seems like an atheist in McCarthy’s post-apocalyptic vision!? Well, maybe not. I tend to think such a catastrophe would produce the exact opposite effect—what do you think?).

Thus, a point not directly argued by Taylor, but which can be solidly inferred from the story Taylor tells in his book, is that the secular world in which we now live in Europe and America is irreversible, at least under the present circumstances. Thus, attempts at “fighting the culture,” “winning the culture war,” “taking back America for Jesus,” and so on and so forth are not only futile but counterproductive and wrongheaded church strategy. They’re not wrongheaded because they’re futile (I’m an idealist, I guess?), but rather, they’re wrongheaded because they fail to fundamentally reckon with the reality and complexity of our epoch. At any rate, the briefest perusal of Taylor’s work will leave you with the profound impression that secularization is more complicated than most of us typically imagine; hence, any spirituality or teaching meant for the secular age that fails to deal with this complexity is in deep, deep trouble. Preaching to the choir, I know. It is either incredibly naïve—or, at worst, even duplicitous!—to think that one can “fight secularism” without a parallel commitment to fighting everything that has made secularism the mode of thinking in our age. And, clearly, we want a representative government; we like the social contract; many readers here probably thrive off of the capitalist economic system; we crave our media and our public spaces for free expressions (Dave Schmelzer makes a somewhat related point in the chapter of his book, entitled “Why I’d Rather Live in Paris than Tehran”). Thus, our faith must paradoxically be a kind of secular faith.

To superficially jump to the end of the book, sort of: secularization is not about people losing all religious feelings and longings; rather, it is about a proliferation of options. Thus, humans are left grasping and choosing among so many things, like a weary shopper trying to pick out a brand of paper towels, and no particular idea or religion has the power or persuasiveness to claim hegemony over the world system.NDOBAMA Toward this end, note President Obama’s Notre Dame commencement speech, where he asserted that “no one person, or religion, or nation can meet these challenges alone [i.e., the challenges of terrorism and global warming, etc.].” This seems true, and yet for some, such a statement would seem to pose a threat to certain forms of faith (including Christianity), which tend to present themselves, at least traditionally, as the singular answer to all of the world's problems. In a limited sense, of course, few would claim that only one faith has the power to solve a gamut of political problems; but certainly the implication here is also that no one faith can solve all of the world’s faith problems as well, an implication brought about by the proliferation of options. One could come to that conclusion, at least. At any rate, despite all of the trappings and impossibilities of our secular age, the modern order—which, despite its well-worn appearance, is quite a recent visitor on the world historical stage—still incites a lot of resistance, and has created many new problems, like…

Ah, and there are so many other things, but I see this little review getting out of hand and longer by the minute, and I’ve been caught up in the earlier material—which is so rich in its historical importance—so I’ll just stop here. Maybe I can try a “part two” later. If anyone out there has read this book, I’d love to hear your thoughts. Indeed, if anyone has not read the book, but any of Taylor’s ideas resonate with you, I’d love to hear you thoughts as well.

P.S. More comprehensive and professional reviews can be found here and here and here.

June 10, 2009

Your Time to Shine!

As I mentioned earlier this week, I'll be in England for the week.  On some previous occasions like this, I've been diligent and prepared posts in advance.  This is not one of those times.

However this is no doubt entirely good news, as a hefty percentage of helpful and arresting content on this blog wasn't created by me in the first place, but by you.  (Witness Vince's "Centered-Set Communication..." post this week.) 

All to say, how awesome and provocative this week on the ol' blog will prove to be will boil down to you all.  (And, if I might point out, I've solicited guest posts from several of you which I know you're planning to write...take this as that prod you need.)  Send your guest posts to Dan Littauer, who manages this blog, at dan@notreligious.org. He will get back to you if he feels it needs a little more polishing up, or he'll happily put it up complete with his own inimitable brand of graphic enhancement.  (I haven't yet asked him where he came up with the "jogging/ yogging" graphic from Monday.)

So, this is your time to shine!  I can't wait to get back late next week and catch up on the dynamic happenings here!  Or...perhaps it will look more like the small Western town just before the climactic gunfight in High Noon, absolutely unpopulated, tumbleweeds blowing across deserted streets. 

HighNoon  

Make me proud!  Scenario #1 rather than scenario #2!  (Which means that you kind of have to get on it now.  If all the guest posts come in late next week, that will defeat the purpose...  Although, don't get me wrong, I still want them.)

June 09, 2009

Centered-Set Communication in a Globalized World / Vince Brackett (Chicago, IL)

Vince5 I spent this past weekend at a conference focusing on Christian-Muslim conversations hosted by my home church.  We got to hear from some really fantastic people whose names are quite big in the realm of cross-cultural service in the Muslim world.  I was struck by the paradigm that one of them shared  with us about communication in a globalized world called “3-D.”  Though it was developed with the Muslim World in mind, the model is applicable in any context and I think it has a heck of a lot to say about centered-set living in Secular America. 

His pitch is that increased globalization has fundamentally changed the nature of the world’s communication and this poses a challenge to those in ministry in the Muslim World (or Secular America, or anywhere).
Un3-D Pre-globalization can be represented by a model of three separate, isolated circles:  Muslim, Christian, and Secular.  In the pre-globalized world, one ministering in the Muslim World can communicate something different about himself in each of the three contexts of his life—a “missionary” in his Christian context, a “worker” in his Muslim context, and a “peacemaker” in his Secular context—and everybody is happy.

However, a globalized world can be represented by a model of the same three circles no longer separate but overlapping like a Venn Diagram.   “In this [globalized] world—whenever we describe who we are, what we do, and why we do it—our words are likely to reach beyond our primary audience and enter the global marketplace of ideas.”  With the perceived “culture wars” and the poor connotations of words like “missionary”, our communication may offend some in a global audience even though it makes our primary audience happy.

This so-called 3-D approach to communication addresses the challenges of globalization by steering the focus away from fringe issues or terms or identifications that may help with our communication in one specific context and toward what he calls core message, core mandate, and core identity that are accessible regardless of context.  In the globalized world model, these are represented by the space shared by all three circles.

3-D For those in ministry to the Muslim World, a core message, mandate, and identity allows for honest and productive communication in all three of the major contexts in their lives—Muslim, Christian, and Secular—because the understandings and worldviews of each have been considered.  And for us in ministry in multi-cultural, post-Christian, American culture-centers, the case can be the same with a consideration of the major contexts in our lives (which, to me, seems like the real kicker since I’d say there are at least 5 or 6 major contexts I have to consider where I am in Chicago).

I think the 3-D approach to communication can teach us a lot about centered-set living.  In our society that conceives of relationship as conversation, but that also is perhaps the epitome globalization with media saturation and Google and YouTube where every published or publicly spoken word is watched and re-watched and critiqued, thoughtful communication that focuses on essentials rather than peripherals is so important.

June 08, 2009

Powerful Incentive to Resume Jogging...and a Favor or Two

An advance warning that this post is remarkably chatty and newsy and not the usual Deep Content, so feel free to skip to our regularly scheduled Deep Content, such as it is, tomorrow.  For the intrepid few who will read on, herewith the chatty, newsy stuff.

So the 700 Club mini-feature on me (I'm not sure what to call a 5 minute video...and evidently there was an additional 5 minutes of chat about it afterward) did air Friday.  Here's the link.  It's a brief take on my conversion story and seems perfectly fair to me.  They got a young man to play me ramming crosses...and, man, does the present-day me look a little jowly compared to the faux-19-year-old me.  I'm telling you--they filmed me from an unflattering angle!  It's the camera angle!  But I have gotten some good jogging in since Friday, so this is clearly all part of God's plan.

Yogging  

Grace and I head to Bath, England on Thursday for what could be a very encouraging trip.  I got a kind invitation to speak at a large church's "Weekend Away" for their members.  I try to bring a kid with me when I travel to speak, and I'd planned that for this trip as well.  But Grace's hangdog expression as she reminisced about two really wonderful trips to Britain that we took before we had kids made me wonder if maybe she could make it work, despite our kids still having a bit more school before summer hits.  We'll take three-ish days there after the Weekend Away.  We were trying to add up how many days we've had together sans kids since our first child was born twelve and a half years ago.  The total--a whopping 3 days.  So we'll lap the field with this, and I'm very much looking forward to it.

C3_logo But, apart from that little window into my upcoming week, I'm wondering if you have any thoughts for me.  On the one hand, the church (Christian City Church Bath and Bristol) kindly invited me to speak on "whatever was on my heart."  Earlier on, the pastor (the awesome Andrew de Thierry) had mentioned interest in having me speak about having grown a church in a secular setting, as they are in process of doing.Andrew_De_Thierry3   No doubt I'll touch on stage theory and bounded/centered set (note the short videos on these topics in the multimedia button, above). I'll probably talk about various approaches to connecting with God, as that seems like a fundamentally centered-set thing.  And I'm kicking around talking about the hero's journey (sadly only explored in my book, not yet on this blog) and how that can motivate us towards bold endeavors on God's behalf.  Yet I'm worried that the English cultural context might be different enough than I've experienced here that I'll be tone deaf. 

So, the favor.  For those of you familiar both with this material and with England (Bath in particular), do you have any advice about things I should especially focus on or avoid?  Any sense of the needs for people trying to follow Jesus in that context?

And a mini-second favor.  Grace and I have enjoyed traveling to interesting places that perhaps aren't large metropolises, but are pretty places with the occasional interesting thing to drop by.  For those of you familiar with Bath and the surrounding area, any thoughts on where we should travel for our three days of travel time?

June 05, 2009

Jesus Is An Amalgamation? / Adam Reynolds

Adam ReynoldsOrganic Church I had this funny encounter over the past week.  I have a gym membership at MIT, one of the great secular universities here in the Boston area.  Last Thursday afternoon, as I was entering the gym, I managed to accidentally set down a book that I had with me.  The book is called Organic Church (it's worth a read if you're someone who thinks about church planting).

When I was leaving the gym, I realized I didn't have the book anymore so I retraced my steps to try and find it.  When that didn't work, I tried the lost and found.  Happily, they had my book and I went home relieved.  A couple of days later, as I was reading the book, I noticed that someone had written a little note on the title page.

AdamR_Note  

It read: "Jesus is an an amalgamation of previously existing mythical archetypes"

Interesting!  I found myself intrigued--partly by the statement itself, but mostly by the fact that the note's author had clearly thought about this subject in some depth (though the note appears to have been written in a hurry) and cared enough about it to communicate his thoughts to me.  But then I found myself frustrated.  This clearly had the potential makings for a good discussion, but my new pen pal was anonymous and I had know way of replying to him/her.

But then I found myself contemplating a somewhat whimsical idea.  I decided, "what the heck? It's worth a try."  So yesterday I put up a couple of the following posters in the vicinity where I lost the book.

Amalgamation

I didn't really think there was much chance that the note writer would notice my poster, much less respond, but in less than 12 hours I got a response.  Here's some selected excerpts from the email:

First of all I just want to apologize for my childish act of defacing your book. I did it to show off for a couple people that were egging me on, and I feel like a total ass because of it. I would love to pay for your book if you would give me the chance...

I would love to talk to you about the subject of early christnianty, gnosticism, and jesus/osiris dionysis/bacchus/
adonis/attis/mithras/pythagoras etc (although I am not religious or spiritual in any way). Apart from little bits of research on early christianity most of the information I have found on this subject is found in "The Jesus Mysteries" by Timothy Freke and Peter Gandy. Freke and Gandy have personal affiliations with new agey gnosticism/paganism, so you obviously have to take what they say with a grain of salt. Of course their citations do not suffer from their vested interests and are quite interesting. The overarching hypothesis is that the figure now known as Jesus may or may not have existed, but the supernatural stories attributed to him are most likely a patchwork of existing stories, many of which center around a god-man who is the son of god who dies/suffers to save others and rises from the dead 3 days later to ascend to heaven. My two favorites are the story of the Pythagoras fish which early christians wore as an esoteric symbol of christianity and of the magi who are simply followers of Zoroaster a monotheistic prophet that
preached 1000 years before jesus. They visit the baby jesus to lend the legitimacy of their monotheistic religion to this infant religion. Its a subject I like discussing, to the point of compulsion(as evidenced by my childish defacement of your hardcover book). So again I apologize profusely for my immature and stupid act. I hope that in the spirit of the individual concerned in our subject matter you can forgive me once I recompense you. But "The Jesus Mysteries" is a must read if you are interested in early christianity like I am.

Sorry again.

Sincerely,
-The compulsive pedant who defaced your book


Wow!  It seems my suspicion was correct and this person's brief comment reflected something deeply meaningful to them.  I've already written back to suggest getting together for a conversation.  In thinking about what that conversation might look like I immediately felt that I would really love the input of my stage-four, centered-set-thinking cohorts. 

As implied in the poster (an reiterated in my email to the person), I'm approaching the conversation primarily wanting to listen and ask questions, but I thought it might be helpful to have some thoughts about this subject going in.  I certainly don't want to be showing up with an agenda to argue or even "convince."  And I suppose this is the type of conversation that can easily drift towards apologetics, but I was wondering, if in the spirit of the conversations on this blog, there could be a more stage fourish, centered set approach to the discussion.  What do you think?

June 03, 2009

Elmore Leonard Knows Everything

RoadDogsCover I just finished Elmore Leonard’s latest breezy crime novel, Road Dogs.  It’s widely praised as his comeback book.  (He’s 83 and still cranks out a strong-selling book or two a year, so it’s not clear he needs a comeback.)  And it’s a kick—proudly inconsequential, engaging throughout.

But what most caught my eye was something he’s done well for decades—his use of point of view.  He uses, if I’ve got my point of view terminology straight, third ELeonard person limited with endless confidence.  In other words, he tells his story from everyone’s point of view.  He’ll start with his hero (Jack Foley, the hero of his previous Out of Sight, who seems suspiciously like George Clooney in this edition), but he moves around as the mood (frequently) strikes him.  Now we’re in the mind of his villain!  Now we’re in the mind of the patsy who’s being used!  Now we’re in the mind of the immigrant punk who’s in over his head!  And so on.

Sure, some of them will unfortunately have to take a few bullets in the chest before we’re done.  The occasional character we’ve just gotten to know might take a fall from the roof of a parking garage.  C’est la vie.  But they all have their point of view, their world, their reasons.

I thought about Elmore Leonard’s godlike gift as I read this article this week about Sara Jane Moore, just released from prison more than 30 years after she tried to assassinate Gerald Ford.

SaraJ NEW YORK—The woman who fired a gun at President Gerald Ford in 1975 and spent the next 32 years in prison said in an interview Thursday that she believed the country would change only through a violent revolution.

Sara Jane Moore told NBC's "Today" that she now realizes that her actions, stemming from her involvement in radical politics, were "wrong ... a serious error."

In Sept. 22, 1975, Moore, then around 45, fired on Ford as he waved to a crowd in San Francisco. A man near her knocked the pistol out of her hand and the shot went astray. It was the second failed attempt on Ford's life in less than three weeks.

Moore was sentenced to life in prison but released on parole in December 2007. She has lived in an undisclosed location since then.

It was during the long years in prison, she said, that "gradually I began to realize that I had let myself be used. ... I definitely think that it was wrong. I think I was misled. I think I was mistaken. I think I made a serious error."

Moore, who had been loosely associated with leftist groups in California, said she "wasn't prepared" for the things she learned about the extent of poverty and other problems.

"It was a time that people don't remember. You know, we had a war ... the Vietnam War, you became -- I became -- immersed in it," Moore said Thursday.

"We were saying the country needed to change. The only way it was going to change was a violent revolution. I genuinely thought that (shooting Ford) might trigger that new revolution in this country."

She said she now knows she was hearing only one side of the story. "We thought San Francisco was the world, and it wasn't."

It was the last paragraph that got me.  “She said she now knows she was only hearing one side of the story.  ‘We thought San Francisco was the world, and it wasn’t.”

Elmore Leonard dazzles, to a great degree, through not making that mistake.  His most-disreputable characters still get their say, with sympathy.  And then… c’est la vie. 

And people are still reading him, all these years later. 

It seems to me this has something to say about the kind of faith we talk about here.  What think you?

June 02, 2009

How Faith Creates Problems / Dan Littauer

Recently I’ve been reading a book that I think exemplifies centered-set thinking in action. It’s called Doing the Truth in Love by Fr. Michael J. Himes, a professor of theology at Boston College. In it, Fr. Himes says:

Frhimes “To be human is to be endlessly caught in a web of decisions among partial goods. It involves choosing between shades of grey, seldom if ever between absolute black and white. It means taking the risk of discerning the good and acting upon it insofar as you can see the good, knowing that you never see it with perfect clarity.” (60).



That rings true for me. If I’m understanding the centered-set model, we don’t have “the Truth” but instead, are trying to uncover the truth as we draw closer to the center. Since no one else shares our exact set of experiences, background, genetic makeup, etc. that means each one of us is coming from a unique direction. And the interesting thing about this is that we can only see the center from our point of view (and at a distance), which also means that is the vantage point from which we see everything else. It is only from the center, that we can look outward in all directions, and see everything as it truly it is. Until then, we are forced to make decisions without knowing the answers. The irony of life is that we are forced to live in it before we know how.

I think that’s why centered-set dialogues are so crucial. Through dialogue and relationship, the other person allows us to see the world and God from a different vantage point. And the more we do this, the more we begin to see the world fully as it truly is, and we find ourselves drawing ever closer to the center. And that’s why art is crucial also. Art takes us outside of our reality and gives us a new perspective. Art allows us to live outside of ourselves (if even for a brief moment), so that when we enter back into our reality, we can live it better.

And here’s the interesting thing that Fr. Himes points out. When you throw God and faith into the mix, rather than becoming easier, life becomes more complicated. He writes,

One of the besetting problems of the church is the assumption that, somehow or other, faith leads to clear and simple answers. In my experience, faith seldom provides answers—but it does raise questions.

If, for example, you are confronted by a terrible tragedy—let us say, the death of a young spouse and parent from cancer—and you believe that we live in an essentially haphazard universe, then the death may be very sad, but it presents no great problem for one’s fundamental attitudes toward life. But if you are confronted by that death and also try to maintain that the universe is in the hands of an all-good, all-wise and all-powerful God, then you have a problem. Faith is not the resolution of that problem; faith is what makes it a problem. There would be no difficulty if you were not a believer. Faith is what makes the tragedy into a real dilemma.

I suspect that we believers have to be more and more willing to share with one another and with others who are not believers… the immense difficulty of trying to be authentically human in our world in our time… (Doing the Truth in Love, 61)

And that’s where I’m at. I’m 25 years old and certainly do not have all the answers. In fact, what I find is I know less now then I used to. And I definitely agree with Fr. Himes: “Faith is not the resolution of that problem; faith is what makes it a problem.”

The less I know, the more dependent I become on God and others. I think that’s why the key to this life might be relationships. I think that’s why we give and receive each other. How could we possibly live and see life as it truly is without God and others?  Maybe that’s what we’re up to on this blog.

June 01, 2009

You Didn't Shirk the "Solemn Assignment!"

Thanks everyone, Dave T. perhaps especially, for taking me at my word and interacting over the back and forth we found ourselves in after the "Putting Second Things First" post of last week.  I really appreciate the energy and thoughtfulness you all put into it.  (For those of you who missed this, you can find all of it in the post and the comments below.)

I think my response would be that Dave and I, strangely enough, seem to live in utterly different worlds, despite talking to lots of similar people.  (Often these folks would fit the "overeducated" category.)

To Dave, if I'm understanding him, having thoughtful and confident perspectives on any range of issues gives him credibility and interesting things to talk about with the secular folks around him.  His concern is that my focus on Jesus would be distancing and sort of strange to these folks, maybe even simplistic.

My experience has been just the reverse in talking now with hundreds of folks, over many weeks in most cases, as they consider secularism and faith.  Any insistence I ever have about talking about "issues" is regarded as an irritant, but talking with them about faith has been eagerly received. 

Arguments of any stripe are usually regarded with weariness by the folks I talk with, especially if they're educated.  So much of their lives is spent arguing, and their defenses instantly go up when arguing something seems important to me.  Whatever argument I propose just encourages them to find and shoot down the holes they spot in it, and they're sick of that--not that they won't dutifully and reflexively do it anyway.  If I can prove I've thought about an issue more than they have, I may get a "touche," but I won't get a continued relationship.  And I leave asking myself why my opinion on...pick one...Guantanamo, abortion. gay marriage, political perspectives...was so important to me that I squandered actually talking about heart issues that actually mean something to my conversation partner.

Instead, if such subjects come up and I say, "Wow.  I'm interested in hearing your perspective on x issue.  Tell me more," things go very differently.  Because they'll tell me their perspective, and I'll say something like, "That's totally interesting."  (Which is always is.)  "Here's what I think about when I hear what you're saying.  Am I understanding you?"  And they'll say whatever they say.  And I'll find myself affirming the value that's important to them in whatever position they take because, again, they're thoughtful people and they aren't advocating for evil, whatever their position on anything.

And invariably at that point they'll ask me what I think about whatever.  And, rather than feeling any particular need to refute them on anything, I'll find myself talking about how whatever issue we're talking about helps me or others experience more or less of God.  Because, in point of fact, that is what I most care about in life, as they'll have understood by that point of the conversation.

And, because these are always awesome, gracious people, they'll ask me more about that and usually extend the conversation by throwing in their perspectives on the spiritual stakes of our conversation. 

Sometimes this happens in the context of a SEEK course (we have info on that, above), and so I know I'll be seeing these folks in a week and we'll continue our conversation.  In that structured setting, again, I've seen at this point hundreds of those conversations go phenomenally well, where skeptical people find themselves experiencing a living faith.  And I consistently hear back that that the open, engaged, not-especially-argumentative conversations we had were a major part of what went well for them.

In general, non-SEEK settings, I find this approach sets me up for another, in-depth conversation the next time I see my conversation partner.

I think that's the spirit of where I was coming from in my "Putting Second Things First" post.  I can't remember one of those conversations where I've wished I'd contended more strongly for whatever my opinion was on whatever the hot-button topic of conversation was. Because, in my case at least, I've really never cared if I converted my conversation partner to my point of view on any of them.  I've found I had more interest in the person themselves than I did in them holding my opinion.

That said, I'm hearing loud and clear from Dave that this hasn't been his experience, that he's found that an intelligent and forceful presentation of his views has done great things in his relationships.  So, again, it seems we've just lived in different worlds.

May 28, 2009

Our Friends at the 700 Club...and a Solemn Assignment

700_Club_logo If it holds any interest for you, I'll be on, yes, the 700 Club next Friday, June 5.  Check listings in your local area.  No further comment will be made from this front... (said from someone who's been in the midst of a massive amount of commenting on the cultural incongruity of it all, but wishes only the best for our friends at the 700 Club). 

As to the "solemn assignment," I very much do want your comments on something that I think will really help our conversation here and that isn't as easy to comment on as it looks.  It's in the comments section of the last post, called "Putting Second Things First."  My friend Dave Thom offered an articulate rebuttal of my post, I tossed out a brief comment that I felt we were fairly consequentially talking past each other, and then I invited other longtime readers of this blog to take the first whack at a response to Dave's comment.  As of this writing, three of you have done a great job of taking me up on that request.  But I still think there's more to be said, and I think that whatever it is that you'll say will be really on point and helpful to what we're up to here.

So I'm loathe to lose this opportunity and just rush onto something else.  So take this as a little thought exercise.  You--yes, you, longtime reader but rare commenter, along with longtime reader and frequent commenter--glance back at my post, read Dave's push-back comment, and weigh in with your own comment as you try to untangle what might be going on in that exchange.  I think you'll find it a valuable thing to try.  And I'll be nothing but eager to learn from you all as you do.

So...right now...put down that cup of coffee, take another minute off from whatever it is that you should actually be doing right now, and write your comment on yesterday's post.

No.  Seriously.

May 27, 2009

Putting Second Things First

Cutting_Edge As my upcoming article in Cutting Edge (mentioned in last week's post called Love Is an Orientation) will mention, I had a memorable encounter with a pastor who was leading our statewide fight against gay marriage a couple years back.  I asked him, in effect, if the main message he wanted to communicate to the secular world about the gospel was "gay people need to repent."  Whatever the merits he saw to that point, did he regard that as the main message of the Bible and therefore what secular people most needed to hear? 

We never arrived at an actual answer to that, but he didn't disavow that either.  "First things first," was the spirit of his reply.  To which my response was, "First thing first!?"  Even to this pastor, surely that would be a secondary point, however important a point he might regard it as being.  As a pastor who teaches the New Testament, surely he'd concede that the primary message, the most important--and by a long shot--message he'd want to convey would have something to do with, well, Jesus

But we parted ways over that.  It seems to me that this pastor made the key mistake this blog is doing its best to combat, the mistake of turning secondary things into primary things.  I think this is a big big deal.  And it's very easy to do.

Gay Symbol At the risk of needless provocation, I think some of our conversation here last week about the "religious dimensions of the torture debate" did that.  Hot-button issues--gay marriage and Guantanamo, to name two--tend to draw many a commenter we don't otherwise see who are eager to interject strong, often hostile opinions into our conversation. 

When that happens, usually a regular commenter or I will try to redirect.  "Here's, I think, the conversation we're actually trying to have here."  But, in these hot-button conversations, attempts to redirect will either be ignored entirely or will be shouted down.  "How DARE you say that my perspective on this hot-button issue isn't the most important point that could possibly be made on the most important issue of our DAY?" 

In this case, the redirect went along these lines: "The reason for running this post actually wasn't to debate the merits of the Bush-era (or Obama-era) position on torture, except perhaps in passing.  It was actually to talk about how alienating the perception of Christian's support of torture proves to be to secular people.  What do you make of that and how can we do better?"

Even after that redirect was disregarded (by some :) ), we actually had a notable case in point.  An (albeit somewhat surly) older atheist commented that, yes, this in fact did strongly alienate him from Christian faith.  I acknowledged his point and mentioned that, hey, here was a case in point of what we were talking about.  And, a bit later, one commenter heatedly rebuked my acknowledgment of this person's point and heatedly talked about the atheist commenter's faulty logic.

Which, ironically, was the point as I understood it to Steven's provocative original post:.  When we do things like that, we put a massive wedge between us and the world around us, and for what?  Not for the gospel, which never came up in that conversation.  But for...our position on the Bush doctrine regarding torture?  Are we crazy?

Bounded vs CenteredSet Again, I think this is where centered-set thinking helps us.  (For an explanation of that term, check out the multimedia tab above.)  To be helpful in a secular setting, we're contesting that our only option is centered-set, to point ourselves and others towards Jesus, so that Jesus can validate himself.  When things go wrong for us is often when we make secondary things primary--hot-button issues that become more important to us than Jesus himself.  Or when we can't distinguish between the two.  I'm sympathetic both that this is easy for any of us to do and also that this way of thinking can be very challenging for those of us happily raised in very religious settings to see much value in.

Now this does not address how those of us who do want to live a centered-set life should in fact address important social questions like those that become hot-button issues.  Clearly important issues are in fact important, and I'd love your thoughts here on how to hold these two things in balance.

But  I am saying that, to my mind, putting second things first is what the Bible calls "idolatry."  We're only supposed to put first what is first, and that would be God.

May 25, 2009

The Cycle of Jadedness / Charles Park

Charles Park2 The traditional approach of the Church World is about ‘reasons’ and ‘arguments’ for God.  This approach seems based more on the culture of the church world where there exists a shared framework of viewpoint leading to interest in finer points of theology and approaches to God, but for the post-Christian world, ‘reasons’ won’t work on mass scale.

These people have heard the ‘reasons’, and rejected them.  And now they have built their identities around being a post-Christian.  In such cases, arguments tend to only make them dig deeper into their positions, because ‘reasons’ rarely convince someone to abandon their identity, because the ‘logic’ itself flows from our culture and our identity.

For example, it’s hard to imagine Saul/Paul could have been won by arguments pre-conversion.  He changed only because Jesus appeared to him out of the blue. 

A real presence of God is needed.

The church movement that has the size and the scope to matter, and emphasizes the real presence of God is the Pentecostal movement.  Yet, there are real limitations of the Pentecostal approach to reach the post-Christian world, because it is a movement that grew out of the people suffering from various forms of oppression (from slavery for African-Americans to the poverty in third world countries, etc.).

Well, in that setting when they are starving to death, dying of AIDS, with no hope for the future, they need to encounter the presence of God in powerful ‘deliverance miracles.’  They need healing, they need food, they need miracle, because they are in desperate need.

So, there is no holding back for them.  There is shouting and yelling and praying all night, because they have no other hope.  The miracles are celebrated, hyped, and the volume is way up, because they need the hope that ‘it can happen.’

However, many in the Western culture are turned off by the ‘loud’ volume of this particular expression of faith.  Some even condemn it as prosperity gospel.  I believe we need to withhold such judgments because we don’t share their context. What if the preachers there are preaching the power of the Cross to deliver them from the modern form of slavery?  Didn’t Moses promise a land flowing with milk and honey?  Was that prosperity gospel?

But of course, when this style comes over to the Western setting, it doesn’t transfer well to the secular culture.

The secular people in the culture centers of America are not attracted to 3 hour services (or all night prayer meetings) with yelling and shouting and miracle-touting ‘hype’ going on, because they are not desperate. By and large, they are educated, prosperous, with health care plans and 401k’s.  They are the ‘empowered’ people.

Their problems instead come from being part of a consumption driven society, where we go for the more and the better only to become jaded and cynical, because the riches we have, the vacation homes we own, that nifty Lexus we so wanted, they haven’t led to the happiness we thought these ‘things’ would bring. 

A stark example is from the New York magazine article by Naomi Wolf in 2003 which talks of the onslaught of porn in our society and how such stimulation has affected us.  Her conclusion:  “The evidence is in:  Greater supply of the stimulant equals diminished capacity.”

We haven’t counted on the dynamic of ‘diminished capacity’ to enjoy life even as we get more stimulation. 

So, we need even more stimulation to feel the same level of thrill which leads to even more jadedness which requires even more stimulation, so on and so on. We are caught in a vicious trap of consumption driven jadedness.  So, our problems are in addictions, depression, relational brokenness, alcoholism, workaholism, sexaholism, etc.

Jesus once asked, “what good is it to gain the world and lose your soul?”  If we consider our soul to hold our capacity to enjoy life, what good is it indeed to pursue the greater thrills only to lose the capacity to enjoy it?

Freud once mused that the modern society has gained what the primitives would ascribe to the gods, yet we’re not happy.  He did not know why.  Perhaps we have gained the world and lost our souls.

This might explain why the secularized people who are experiencing spiritual thirst are turning to the high church.  The high church with their liturgy and sacraments bring relief to the clogged soul in a quiet, toned-down way.

This people group tend to instinctively understand that authentic relationships bring healing and wholeness to the soul.  So, it makes sense to them that their soul can experience cleansing in the presence of God.  But of course, there are limitations to religious rituals because they tend to be mysterious.

 This is a serious limitation, because this generation conceives of relationships in terms of ‘conversations.’  Sacraments worked better in medieval times when people thought of relationships in terms of duty and honor and guilt.  They didn’t think of relationships as ‘hanging out’ as much as we do now.

That’s why I believe communicating the gospel in terms of the power of the Cross to open an authentic and personal relationship with God today can speak to the post-Christian generation.

I believe this is what the next truly ‘emergent church’ must learn, how to present to the secular people in terms (and context) easily accessible to them, how to connect to the presence of God and experience cleansing of their souls for increased capacity to enjoy life.

 

 

 

May 22, 2009

Not-Religious Dimensions to the Torture Debate

This is all fascinating stuff.  And yet I find myself largely feeling like this is an offline conversation for our purposes here.

What interested me in Steven's original post was not his perspective on whether people trying to follow the Jesus of the Bible could ever support a government that authorizes torture.  That actually strikes me as beyond the scope of our general conversation here.  By and large, I don't find myself caring one way or the other about the opinions people I meet hold on the hot button issues of the day.  I don't care if I convert someone from their political point of view or even their moral point of view.  And I feel much the same here.  Clearly we approach this from different perspectives, and--quoth Dickens--God bless us everyone.

What made me want to run his post was his pointing out how the conversation played out for people of faith in very secular settings.  If his data bears out and far more evangelicals than secularists support torture, then (a) it might be relevant to kick around thoughts on why that's so, but (b) it might even be more relevant to realize that this will need to be part of our conversation with the world around us if we live in very secular places. 

Clearly if we live in places where most people are churchgoers or feel guilty that they're not, then we're golden (unless we feel some perverse need to talk perfect strangers out of their support for Guantanamo). 

But most people in very secular settings do, rightly or wrongly, regard "Christians" and, more specifically, "evangelicals" as gun-toting, warmongering bigots.  What Steven's post reminded me was that I need to take that into account in such places and have some thought-through responses when things like torture come up.

I vividly remember one get-together I had a few years back with a local political comedian.  He's actually quite well-known around here and a few years back had a national show on one of the networks.  He briefly came to our church as he wondered whether he wanted to re-engage with faith after his destructive Catholic upbringing.  As he drove me home from one of his gigs, he stopped the car and, almost shaking, looked me in the eye and asked this.  "President Bush, he's a Christian, right?  But he refuses to ban land mines.  AS A CHRISTIAN, HE REFUSES TO BAN LAND MINES!  HOW IS THAT POSSIBLE?"

At the time, either to my shame or my credit, I was more or less supportive of President Bush.  (Full disclosure, it was indeed the torture issue that got me off of the Bush bus.  But maybe that's needlessly provocative in the context of this current conversation...)  So I started futzing around and said something like, "Well, I do believe he's a sincere Christian..."  To which my companion said, "I agree with you!  He DOES seem sincere!  That makes me wonder if I could ever be a Christian!"

Proving what a bumbler I am in conversations like this, my next comment was something about the complex political realities that I was sure the president was responding to.  But my friend wouldn't drop it.  "We're talking about LAND MINES!  Land mines that KILL CHILDREN!  That doesn't seem like a hard call for a Christian to MAKE!"  And he was shaking by this time.  This really bothered him.

And finally, maybe, I clued in.  I said something like, "You know, I don't know what I'm talking about, and I really don't want to spend much time defending President Bush's land mines policy.  But clearly this really hits something profound in you.  So can you forgive me for my stupid answers and can I back up and ask you why you bring this up?"  And we ended up in an impassioned half-hour conversation at the curb in front of my house about what he would want from a God if there was one, about why he was re-exploring faith at all, and about the seemingly impossible barriers he felt he had to get past to even get started in this conversation--the main one being that the evangelical political debate, by all accounts, was something he had to sign off on before he could explore Jesus at all.

So, clearly, if we were to meet one of Steven's secular partners in conversation who, hearing that we followed Jesus, said, "I'm really troubled by evangelical's support of torture," I'm presuming none of us would say, "Well, I don't believe we can be girly men if we want to keep our country safe from terrorism."  I'm also presuming none of us would repeat my mistake and launch into a thoughtful perspective on why, against our friend's initial thinking, Jesus might indeed be supportive of governmental use of torture in certain circumstances.

I'm thinking we might head more quickly towards, "Wow, tell me more why that's the first thing that came to mind for you when we talked about Jesus."

How do those of you who live in very secular settings respond when hot-button issues get raised as barriers to faith by your secular friends?  Have you seen good and generative things happen as a result of your responses?  What are your hopes for how you might navigate such difficult terrain?

May 21, 2009

Religious Dimensions to the Torture Debate / Steven Hamilton (Baltimore, MD)

STEVErecent national survey by the Pew Research Center for the People & the Press, conducted April 14-21 among 742 adults interviewed in English and Spanish on landlines and cell phones, has found little change in opinions about the use of torture against suspected terrorists since the public knowledge of these tactics were released and the debate about it has been on-going in the public forum. 

 

OK, but what exactly does that mean and what is it that hasn't changed much?  The religious dimensions of this survey are astounding, and I think translate into difficult issues to tackle in faith conversations. 

 

Well, the survey sponsored by the Pew Forum on Religion and Public Life shows that the most frequent American churchgoers-those who attend services once a week or more-are the most likely to support torture of prisoners.   

 

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About 54 percent of the frequent churchgoers, compared with 42 percent of infrequent churchgoers, said that torture was often or sometimes justified.

 

The strongest support for torture-60 percent-came from "white Protestant evangelicals."

 

According to this survey from the Pew Forum, those who profess no religion at all are least likely to support torture.

 

How do we explain this?...and what exactly does this mean? 

 

How can this be if "evangelical Christians" believe in the principles expressed in the Sermon on the Mount:

  •  "Blessed are the merciful, for they shall obtain mercy" (Mt 5:7)

  • "Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called sons of God" (Mt 5:9)

  • "You have heard that it was said, 'Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.' But I tell you: Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your brothers, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect." (Mt. 5:43-48) 

This kind of research and publicity says something to other people, so what kind of witness is this for Christ and His principles of the Reign of God?  If "evangelical Christians", as represented in this survey, believe in the principles of the Sermon on the Mount, where does justifying torture fit into it? 

 

How can I be a "person of peace" loving those church-goers who adamantly support what I think is wrong, and carefully articulate this love while loving and engaging those who aren't church-goers?  Why do you think that "secularists" exhibit less support for torture than "religious" Americans?  Do you think this has any effect on the faith conversations you have had recently?

 

Finally, does this make it tough to identify with "evangelical Christianity" and have faith conversations in secular city-center culture spaces?